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Tuesday, August 13, 2019

Principles of self confidence


Self-image-building Principle
Self-image is the way you see yourself. To build your self-image “picture yourself what you want to be”. In Psycho-cybernetic terms your “self-image” is the result of all the inner programming. Your self-image, the way you see yourself on the inside, largely determines your performance on the outside.
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principles of self confidence
Self-image is the total picture of yourself which you carry around with every minute of the day; you may not be aware of it, but it is there, complete to the last detail. Your self-image grew out of the beliefs you formed about yourself since the day you were born. Self-image is the basis on which your entire personality, behavior and environment are built. It is a prime motivator.
Your self-image is formed as a result of all thoughts and experiences in your life from birth to the present moment. Self-image is the mental picture you hold of yourself. Your self-image resides in the subconscious mind, which forms part of your belief system. You can never outperform your self-image, meaning: if you do not see yourself as confident, then you will not act with confidence.
Your self-image will naturally blossom if you think well of yourself, your thoughts, words and deeds, and be convinced of your worth and competence. Take care of your self-image and regularly reinforce it, by feeding your subconscious mind with boosting, inspiring thoughts.
Picture yourself as a successful person in whatever you do. A picture is worth a thousand words. Begin by being a successful person in mind before becoming successful person if you cannot picture yourself as a successful person. Picture yourself as if you are already in possession of your goal.
Everybody has a self-image which is already programmed and therefore everybody has an existing self-image. Almost everyone suffers from an adequate self-image. New self-image has to be created by re-programming yourself. It will require that you remove, alter or amend old thought patterns and beliefs with positive suggestions. The change takes place in gradual stages.
Everything in your life, including your wealth is directly proportionate to your self-image which is a faithful reflection of your mental programming. Indeed it is the conscious part of your mental programming and it puts on the road to a totally new life.
Eliminate your old negative self-image. A negative self-image prevents you from reaching your full potential. Change the existing thought pattern. Create your new positive self-image which will enable you to reach your full potential. Create new thought patterns. Be convinced that you can achieve aby degree of success by changing your thoughts and attitude with faith and perseverance.
12 Ways to improve your self-image
1.    Be honest with yourself
2.    Develop your imagination
3.    Have total physical and mental relaxation
4.    Have a winning attitude
5.    Cultivate good habits
6.    Aim to be happy
7.    Remove the mask of someone else’s expectation and stop deceiving yourself
8.    Have compassion
9.    Grow from your mistakes
10.  Acknowledge your weaknesses
11.  Be yourself
12.  Follow the growth principle of life
There is always direct relationship between self-image and your ability to succeed in your life. So you yourself are totally responsible for your success and prosperity or otherwise. It is up to you to eliminate your old negative self-image and create a positive one.

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